
I love a good juxatapostion. And for me, there is none quite like big manly car vs a tiny, girly me. This case of opposite attraction occurred just before my 16th birthday and ended with me and my baby. A 1994 Toyota Landcruiser. This vehicle wasn't one I had grown to love after road trips and rush hour traffic; this is one that I aggresively and passionately loved. I told my neighbors every chance I got how much I loved their car, and magically enough it worked. A few short days after my 16th birthday that baby was mine, in exchange for 24 cold cans of Diet Coke. That car was everything to me, and not just because of the promises of freedom and the secrets it concealed, but because in a family of eight it was the one thing I had ever owned that was mine. It was not something my older sister could beg me to borrow and the rest of my siblings were far from driving age. Most Saturday mornings you could find me washing, waxing and vacuuming every inch of that baby until she shined like a penny. I even remember crying the time she choked to a stop in the right lane of Buckley Road. I remember thinking, "You can't die!"

It is these fond memories of my first car that make the death of my second one so cold. This one was newer, sportier and much girlier than my baby would ever be. She didn't even get a name. So after about 5 grand and a resurrected Jeep Liberty, my dear Methodist friend will be blessing her and we will be christening her with love and a name. I'm thinking Bessie.